- Always have a plan.
- Live with intention.
- Make it simple.
Always have a plan.
It may seem daunting to make a plan and maintain a schedule when it comes to house order, but my purpose in exercising this principle is to train myself to master my surroundings, teach my child the importance of having a plan and following through with it, and it enables me the surprising flexibility to do whatever else it is I need to enjoy that day. For example, Mondays are dedicated to laundry, bathrooms, and vacuuming. My kids know that along with our regular bed making, putting toys and books away, and doing dishes we will be getting the laundry washed...and FOLDED. Say what??!! I know. I can not bare to think of doing laundry more than that so I get it done. Mondays are days where my kids are making crafts, treats, backyard play etc. to fill home time. If you have a household of more than four, I would add in one more laundry day and break it up. For every two additional bodies, add another day. Once a month I go through our clothes to see what can stay and what can go. When cleaning the bathroom, I go through bathroom drawers, toss empty bottles, and keep my bins in order. I am the queen of bins and love the look of them. I am always keeping an eye out at Target for any clearance bins hoping to add to my collection. You get the idea of what a schedule looks like. Make a list of what needs to be accomplished in the house and start adding projects to your calendar. I love having play dates at my house because that means my kiddos are occupied with positive attention and I can tackle projects like seasonal or grown out of clothes, the craft closet, or even the garage. I dedicate a room to disaster so that I don't get overwhelmed and usually can get some help with boy room clean up if a chocolate almond butter smoothie is promised. Find what works for you and use your resources to create a system you are comfortable with.
A revamp picture of the best closet that this old house contains. At first this closet was a catch all, but I figured it needed more purpose. It was to contain everything we use in our front living space. I completed the project after collecting clearance bins and having the boys friends over for a Nerf war.
Live with intention.
One of my favorite recent reads is Notes from a Blue Bike by Tsh Oxenrider. Although I have yet to implement everything I have learned from that book, I walked away with a resolve to be more intentional with the way my family and I behave and how our home functions. I have started buying things that are effective and functional for our home and not just to satisfy the childhood understanding that a home needs a bunch of...eh hem...stuff. It helps to have a spouse that is supportive of minimalism and creating quality experiences in our home. That soon defined itself for me as selling or donating useless items and making wiser purchases so there was no fuss over experiencing life. My best example of this is with a console table I bought to help with living room clutter. I watched Ikea for a Last Chance piece and then found the coordinating bins at a consignment shop. The piece coordinated well with my home satisfying my design loving heart, was inexpensive, but also served as a great storage piece for books, diapers, and small toys that inevitably make their way into the living space. I can create order with the bins coming in a set of three, which was definitely a perk. My kids know that if something doesn't fit, they take it to their rooms or into the basement with the bigger toys. I have found other great ways to implement this principle and I am excited to share.
Make it simple.
Are you frustrated with how cluttered the kids rooms get with toys? Food falling on the floor in the pantry? Cords popping out of the computer gear drawer? Simplify. Easier said than done for most of us. The best and most effective solution is to plan a day, an afternoon, or an hour where you can tackle it and ask yourself , "Do we really need this? Have we used this in the last three months? Why do I have this?" The principle of simplicity makes its way into everyone's home. Some humans are naturally gifted with the lack of attachment to things while others find it more difficult to let go of "the sheets we had when we first got married." Seriously? I had to glean an understanding of this principle from some experts in the field. Some of my favorite resources are Leo Babauta's Zen Habits Blog, previously mentioned Tsh Oxenrider and The Art of Simple , and Dieter F. Uchtdorf's counsel on What Matters Most and using that counsel to enrich my spirit and enliven our home.
How can you implement these beloved principles in your own home? Let me know!